We created this challenge specifically for the Stag/Vixen lifestyle simply because several challenges focus on the hotwife/cuckold lifestyle, and we wanted to do something for this variation. We will link to some of the other challenges for our cuckold fans.
Take this challenge and enter your score in the comments. Feel free to post a new comment anytime your score changes.. We can track your progress if you wish. In the future, we plan to add profiles and badges so you can share your rank with the community.
Rules
Each challenge has a point value based on its level. Some have bonus points. Each challenge can only be counted one time. Total up the points to see where you rank on the Hotwife scale.
Badge
Points
Rank
0 – 70
Temptress
71 – 140
Seductress
141 – 210
Hotwife
211 – 280
Vixen
281 – 349
Siren
350+
Femme Fatale
| Level 1 = 1 point per challenge |
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| Wear a short skirt and no panties in public. Plan an evening on the town with a twist. Wear a short skirt and no panties. Make it even more fun by letting your husband touch you in public. |
| Leave the bra at home while wearing a loose blouse. This is easy and can appear quite innocent. Wear a loose-fitting blouse that will show your breasts if you lean forward. Now go about your day, but lean forward and give the guys….or girls …. a thrilling view. |
| Take a BDSM or kink test Try one of these BDSM Test Kink Test |
| Take your panties off in public. This one requires a skirt as well. Be sure to do this while your husband watches. Without exposing yourself, lift your skirt and remove your panties, then put them in his pocket. *Bonus Point if someone else sees you do it. |
| Expose your tits in public. Bonus point if someone sees you. This can be risky if you are not careful. Wear a top that is easy to raise up and expose yourself. I have worn a light jacket or sweater as well. I prefer it because it is easy to zip up and cover, then when I’m ready to flash, I just lower the zipper and pull the jacket open. Find a semi-secluded place without security cameras. I’ve done this in restaurants, waiting rooms, parks, gyms, and even airplanes. Use caution and have fun. |
| Simulate a threesome using a suction cup dildo, male sex doll, or sex machine with your husband. The suction dildo is the easiest and cheapest, but any of the three will work. Mount it on the headboard and pretend it’s someone you think is hot. Imagine he is behind you while you suck your husband. Talk dirty, and tell your husband how it feels. 1 Bonus point if you DP. |
| Point out men you find attractive. When you are out with your husband, point out the hot men and discuss what you want to do with them. |
| Look at porn pics and point out cocks you like Watch porn with your husband and point out the cocks you like and why. |
| Show your husband pics you have sent past partners. If you don’t have any, take selfies and discuss sending them to someone. |
| Show your husband any pictures of your Ex cocks Show him and talk about what you like about them. |
| Let your husband restrain you while he fucks you. You can combine this with the blindfold for extra excitement. The first time we did this, I learned what a little rope bunny I was. Due to the complexity, the only thing keeping me from doing this more often is the time and practice it takes for the rigger to become skilled. Under-mattress restraints are a great solution for bed restraints. They’re easy to use, and boy, is it fun!!! No need to install complicated hardware or perfect your Boy Scout knots to have someone… [More] Price: $69.99 Buy Now |
| Wear a wireless vibrator or ball or buttplug in public while your husband handles the remote control. I have to be honest. I have several orgasms every time we do this. We choose app-controlled toys, so it’s all on his phone. LOVE IT!!! Toy Recommendation For an OH FUCK!! Experience, try the Lovense Vulse. |
| Show your husband how you would suck another man’s dick using a dildo. This can be super arousing. Pretend to give a blowjob to a stranger or one of his friends using a dildo. Describe how and what you are doing to them. |
| Tell your husband which of his friends you find attractive. This is a great test to determine if the lifestyle is for you. Point out which of his friends turns you on. Have an honest conversation about his first response. |
| Learn to deep-throat your husband. This takes some practice and depends on the size of your husband’s cock. If you do end up with a well-endowed lover, you will be glad you trained for it. Soon, I will publish my step-by-step deepthroat guide. |
| Watch hotwife/mmf porn with your husband. 1 Bonus point if you cum together. This is our favorite and another great way to test the waters. There are many options, from real amateur videos to very polished and sensual videos. |
| Have a boudoir photoshoot. I love this one!!! We have done several and even have a sexy story to tell with one. You will feel so special and it’s guaranteed to turn him on. As an HW challenge, it gives your husband a chance to see you partially or fully exposed in front of another person, which is a super turn-on. I suggest a male photographer for your first time. See if you can get him turned on. |
| Go on a date with your husband and let him choose your outfit. On your next date night, Let your husband choose your outfit, and you have to wear whatever he chooses, right down to underwear and jewelry. Yielding this control is delicious. Jason has a thing for stockings, and he takes this to a new level by putting on my stockings and heels for me. I get wet thinking about it. |
| Wear a blindfold while you fuck your husband. Imagine it’s someone else. Choose someone you find attractive and have your husband roleplay as him. Call out the prospective lover’s name while your husband fucks you. |
| Let your husband restrain you while he fucks you. You can combine this with the blindfold for extra excitement. The first time we did this, I learned what a little rope bunny I was. Due to the complexity, the only thing keeping me from doing this more often is the time and practice it takes for the rigger to become skilled. Under-mattress restraints are a great solution for bed restraints. They’re easy to use, and boy, is it fun!!! No need to install complicated hardware or perfect your Boy Scout knots to have someone… [More] Price: $69.99 Buy Now |
| While fucking your husband, see how quickly he cums when you talk about fucking another man. Similar to the hand job, but do it while he is fucking you. Don’t expect him to last long. |
| Fuck your husband and make him cum while talking about fucking a black man A great way to introduce the BBC fantasy. |
| Give your husband a handjob while talking about other men cumming in/on you. Similar to the handjob challenge above, but focused on your lover’s orgasm and where and how he finishes. Make it dirty and talk about where he cums, what hole he fills, and how you will play with it. If he is into it, kiss your husband and talk about how it would taste to share your lover’s cum. |
| Let your husband tell you a story while he finger fucks you. This is fun because it puts his creativity in his hands. It can also give you insight into what he likes and even his boundaries. See where it goes. |
| Let your husband take pics of you flashing in public Skirts and dress and no underwear, OH MY!!! You don’t have to let anybody see you. Just discretely flash your husband and let him take pictures. HOWEVER, It can be fun to get ‘caught,’ but you must be careful. |
| Use a vibrator with your husband while watching porn. Talk about the guys on screen you want to fuck. I suggest having your husband sit in another chair or couch where he can’t touch you while you do it. It adds another level of realism to have him watch just like he might if you were with another man. |
| Have a frank discussion with your husband about cock size, differences, and your preferences. Let’s be honest. Men are really focused on cock size, but some women are too. Regardless of your husband’s size, you can have this conversation safely and be supportive. For the Cucks, this may be part of the humiliation aspect. If so, use it. For others, ensure it’s about variety, not a comparison, and keep it fun. Stags may also get off on the idea of their Vixen fucked by a really big cock. |
| Talk to another man on the phone while masturbating or using a dildo. You must keep quiet so he is unaware of what you are doing. |
| Create a dating profile and share the results with your husband. This is easier than ever today. Swiping right or left together is super fun. |
| Buy a black dildo and use it with your husband watching. If you have a BBC fantasy, this is a good way to get into it. |
| Suck a lollipop seductively in public in front of one or more men. You see it in movies where men stare at a woman eating ice cream, a popsicle, or sucking her fingers from some leftover cake icing. It’s a movie cliche because it’s true. Give it a try and see how they react. It will arouse your husband, too!! |
| Eat an ice cream cone. Look at a hot guy and lick ice cream seductively while making eye contact. An added bonus of eye contact with the guy so he knows you know EXACTLY what you are doing. |
| Level 2 = 2 points per challenge |
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| Swallow your husband’s cum Some women do not like the taste of cum. If this is you, then be patient. I am working on a post about developing a taste for it and even how your husband can improve the taste of his cum. Once you get used to it, the power you feel when you do it is wonderful. This one thing can save a marriage. NOT KIDDING!!! EVERY MAN LOVES A CUM SLUT. You are also preparing for the harder challenges of swallowing a lover’s cum. |
| Have your husband ask out a guy you think is hot. This can take many forms. If you go on dates separate from your husband, have him ask the man out for you and arrange a time and day. If not, have your husband invite someone for drinks with you both. |
| Order take-out or room service and answer the door naked or in something revealing. This will take some trial and error. I always check before opening the door to ensure it is a man. Call it what you want, but most women are not appreciative and can even feel threatened. I like to wear a robe. I can open it or close it quickly, depending on how I feel about the situation. You can do this at a hotel or with a delivery driver at home if you feel more adventurous. |
| Show a nude picture of yourself to a hot man by accident. This is really fun with someone you just met. Jason loves to watch their reaction. I’ve also done it with male and female friends, and a few times it was an accident. |
| Find someone to have cam sex with while your husband watches or participates. This is a great way to dip a toe into the lifestyle. Having your husband watch as you chat and talk about fucking a total stranger while safely behind the camera. He can watch or join in. Here are a few cam options. Flingster ChatRandom. ChatSpin |
| Smile at every man you find attractive. See what happens You can do this anytime, anywhere. Just smile and see what happens. Who knows who you might meet. |
| Send him pictures of you flirting with other men on a night without your husband. Send a selfie of you and another guy to your husband. Tell him you are talking to this hot guy. |
| Go to a dance club and dance with another man while husband watches. This is so fun and very safe. Hubby is always right there just in case things get out of hand and it could lead to some fun. |
| Sit at a bar and flirt with men as your husband watches. This is the same as the previous challenges but with your husband in the room so he can observe. |
| ‘Accidentally’ flash your boobs to a stranger or friend. This might take a bit of preparation. Maybe your swimsuit top unties or you have a very loose blouse and no bra or even a top with plunging cleavage that accidentally slips. Who says you can’t enjoy an accident? |
| Dress sexy with no ring and go out alone but with your husband close to observe. See how much attention you get. Another variation of the flirting game but with a twist. |
| OR above alone, then jerk husband off while telling him about the night. Call this the bonus point for the previous challenge. |
| Sext a guy, and make him cum sexting. Get a pic as proof. Get dirty in text or chat with a guy and make him cum. Be sure to have him send you a pic as proof. Share this with your husband. |
| Flirt with a black man. It’s a bonus if you’re wearing a skirt and you uncross and cross your legs, teasing or flashing. You will need to be seated for the bonus to work. Combine with no panties for even more fun. |
| Wear slutty or revealing clothes when his friends are over. Unless they are in on your lifestyle, you might want to walk a fine line here. Something that can be revealing but not obvious would be best. It is a serious turn-on to have a group of men watching you as you prance around the room. Here is a bonus. short skirts and bare feet seem to really drive them crazy. just saying :). |
| Tell your husband about the men you know you would like to fuck. Another easy and fun one and just a variation on some of the other ‘How I like’ challenges. |
| Have your husband show sexy/nude pics of you to one or more of his friends. Get feedback. His friends may never look at you the same again. And isn’t that fun. |
| Go out in no skirt and panties. When you find a place where a guy or two can see you but nobody else. Spread your legs, or if willing, rub your clit while looking at them. Make eye contact and smile. This works best in restaurant booths, on a bus, or in any location where you are seated and the view can be obstructed except where you want to show. |
| Say slutty things in front of strangers or acquaintances. I love watching people react when I say things. Just a little raunchy. We were at a party once, and I danced with this guy. When I returned to the cluster of friends I was with, I said, ‘Mmm, I think I came a little.’ Shocked Silence. |
| Wear a low-cut top and discretely allow your server to see your tits every time he comes by. I love this one. It’s discreet, and you can act like you don’t know or make it obvious. Both are fun in different ways. |
| Say slutty things in front of strangers or acquaintances. I love watching people react when I say things. Just a little raunchy. We were at a party once, and I danced with this guy. When I returned to the cluster of friends I was with, I said, ‘Mmm, I think I came a little.’ Shocked Silence. |
| Go to a strip club with your husband. Pretty self-explanatory. The strippers usually don’t mind if you rub his cock through his pants while you watch. |
| The old no panties buying shoes act. I like to call it the Al Bundy. It is not so common since most shoe stores no longer have salesmen. If you can find one, do it. |
| Allow your husband to finger you in public. Bus, train, airplane, restaurant. Pick somewhere semi-public but where you can be discreet. I’ve not made it off of an airplane without at least being fingered and, in the right circumstances, an orgasm. On one occasion, we even had an observer. |
| The old no panties buying shoes act. I like to call it the Al Bundy. It is not so common since most shoe stores no longer have salesmen. If you can find one, do it. |
| Flash the Uber driver. Start slow on this one. I have had an instance or two where I didn’t feel comfortable, or when it became obvious what I was doing, The driver got mad. We even got kicked out once. Start slow and talk to the driver. If you give some hints, you can determine whether he is open. 2 Bonus points if you can masturbate for him. |
| Wear loose-fitting or sexy clothes while your husband’s friends are around. Bend over and show off. See how many you catch peeking. The next step in the sexy clothing challenge for your husband’s friends is to give them something to see. Hubby must report what is said when you are not in the room. |
| Level 3 = 3 points per challenge |
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| Play naughty Truth or Dare with your husband and a close male friend. if you are new to this, you might want to stick to the truth or R-rated dares. Otherwise, this could get out of hand quickly. If you have played, then have fun and go for it. |
| Go to a club and dance with a black man while your husband watches. Nuff Said. |
| Let a hot guy hit on you at a bar Arrange for your husband to interrupt and rescue you. |
| Go on a solo date where you do not fuck the guy. Talk to your husband and set boundaries beforehand. |
| Kiss another man This could be part of the previous challenge or a different situation. 1 Bonus Point if you do it in front of your husband. |
| Touch a guy’s cock through his pants. Public or private, either way, you will love feeling him get hard. This can be done with or without your husband present. |
| Give a guy a handjob The first time I did this was in the back seat of our car after leaving a bar as Jason drove us around. |
| Give a guy a blowjob. We found it more natural and just easier to start with a friend. My first blowjob is documented in Ch 2. Playing with Thomas |
| Let another man give you a hickey You can do this anywhere, with a stranger or a friend. Making out with a stranger can be very hot. The first time I did this, Jason was just feet away, and I never took my eyes off of him as this young stud bit and sucked on my shoulder, leaving a really nice mark. |
| Let a friend take a body shot off of you. This can be a great way to lead into more raunchy fun. |
| Deep throat a lover Hopefully, you have already learned to deepthroat your husband. Now, you can put that skill to good use with a broader audience. |
| Swallow your lover’s cum while your husband watches Make eye contact with your husband as your lover cums. |
| Get your husband to taste his own cum I love to kiss Jason after he has cum in my mouth. It’s super sexy. |
| Fuck another man in front of your husband. This makes it official. Welcome to the Hotwife family!!!! |
| Fuck another man alone. This makes it official. Welcome to the Hotwife family!!!! |
| Go on a date, then come home and Fuck your husband while you tell him about fucking your date. Be graphic in describing the evening. |
| Go on a date, then come home and have your husband fuck you sloppy seconds If you do this, count the points for the previous challenge. |
| Come home with cum on your clothes. Somewhere noticable. it doesn’t matter how you get the cum on you. Come home and show it off to your husband and tell him all about how it happened. |
| Have a threesome with your husband and another man. For the first time, I suggest a friend. I found it was less pressure. |
| Have your husband and your lover cum on your body. This is a cum slut’s dream. let them choose where to cum. It’s especially fun if they can cum at the same time. |
| Have a threesome. Have your husband blindfold you, Then he and your lover can take turns fucking you without telling you which one it is. |
| Call your husband while fucking your lover. Pick up the phone as your lover slips inside you. Call your husband and tell him exactly what is happening. It’s especially exciting to cum while he listens. |
| Take a selfie holding another man’s cock These photos can be fun to collect. |
| Take a selfie sucking another man’s cock Collect these, too!!! He will find it especially hot if you can show his cum in the photo! |
| Take a selfie fucking another man. You might need your lover to take this pic, but he won’t mind. trust me. |
| Fuck someone 10 years older than you. Older lovers can be more attentive and understand the Stag/Vixen lifestyle. |
| Fuck someone 10 years younger than you. Younger lovers have a tendency to try to degrade their husbands. For cucks, this might be what you want, Otherwise be sure to set expectations. |
| Let your husband dress you for a date. Your husband dresses you for a date as he sees fit. During the date, text your husband and give him updates. He will give you instructions which you must follow. |
| Level 4 = 4 points per challenge |
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| Have your husband taste your lover’s cum Start off small. Either let him kiss you after you have swallowed your lover’s cum or get a little on your finger and give him a taste. |
| Have your husband eat your creampie. your lover might consider him a cuckold If you do this in his presence. This might be desired for cucks. Nothing is wrong with that, but you should be aware and manage expectations or plan on doing so after your lover leaves. |
| Get 3 guys to buy you a drink at a bar. Do whatever it takes to make it happen. This sounds simple, but you may find it complicated to get three different guys to do it. It’s still fun, though. |
| Give a stranger a handjob. it’s easier at a club or a bar. I’ve gone to the car or even slipped into the bathroom. In daily life, men will be very cautious if approached randomly. |
| Give a stranger a blowjob, Careful here. Frankly, we hesitated to include this one due to safety concerns. STDs are a big concern, so, If you are going to do this, then we strongly suggest a condom. |
| Suck a cock together. Cucks, this is right in your wheelhouse. Stags, this may or may not be for you, but if it can be super hot, you might consider giving it a try. |
| Double penetration with husband and lover If you like anal, then you will love this. |
| Let your husband and lover spitroast you. Let them trade places and enjoy the different sensations of each cock. |
| Suck two dicks at the same time. Both in your mouth together This can take some work, and both men have to be open to a little C2C contact, but it’s worth it. |
| Have your husband ask out a stranger for you. This is fun and part of what we call hunting. We go out and find someone I like, then Jason will go talk to him. He will explain our lifestyle and ask the guy if he would like to go on a date with me. Alternately, your husband can arrange for this lover to meet you at your house or a hotel. When we do this, we still take some time in text, chat or maybe drinks to get to know the guy. We have RARELY taken a guy to a hotel the same night and never to our home. |
| Get a stranger to masturbate for you. You can masturbate for him. This is harder than you might think. This is actually harder than a handjob or blowjob. When you try to get a guy to do this, he usually gets paranoid in public. Proceed with caution,and don’t get yourself arrested. |
| Level 5 = 5 points per challenge |
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| Fuck a stranger Fairly simple to do but requires caution, and PLEASE PLEASE use a condom!!! |
| Suck an Uber driver’s cock You still have to feel out your driver to see if he is willing and, yes, a condom. I have taken a risk or two here without one, but only after assessing the driver and determining his very low risk. |
| Fuck an Uber driver’s in his car. Same as above. |
| Suck a delivery / room service person’s cock Same as above. |
| Fuck a delivery person/ room service Same as above. |
| Arrange a masturbation party with several men. Let them all cum on your body. There is just something special about a group of men stroking their cocks as they surround you. The feel of their cum on your body is amazing. |
| Arrange a blowbang Similar to above but you will suck off each of them. |
| Arrange to have two lovers who are not your husband, and he watches. This can be a couple of lovers or a group as your husband watches. The reclaiming after will be epic. |
| Go to an adult bookstore that has a theater with your husband and masturbate while being watched. Dress for the occasion. Skirts or dresses that are easy to lift and cover up are best. |
| Go to an adult bookstore that has a theater with your husband and fuck him while being watched. As above, dress for the occasion. Skirts or dresses that are easy to lift and cover up are best. |
| Go to an adult bookstore that has a theater with your husband and suck a stranger. As above, dress for the occasion. Skirts or dresses that are easy to lift and cover up are best. Use a condom!!! |
| Go to an adult bookstore that has a theater with your husband, and fuck a stranger. As above, dress for the occasion. Skirts or dresses that are easy to lift and cover up are best. Use a condom!!! |
| Visit a glory hole. Double points if you suck a cock. Triple if you get fucked. As above, dress for the occasion. Skirts or dresses that are easy to lift and cover up are best. Use a condom!!! |
| Arrange a gangbang with at least 4 men. The more, the better, and have fun! |
| Get all three holes filled at one time. This can take some work and co-operation from all three men. |
| Arrange a gangbang and do it on webcam. Same as above, get a group of men but do it on webcam. You will be surprised how much excitement you get from having an audience. |
| Swallow more than one load in one night. Must be different men Combined with a gangbang or blowbang and see how much you can swallow. |
| Have your husband tie you up and have several men take turns. You will feel totally helpless as man after man takes his turn on you. For added excitement, add a blindfold. |